I sympathize with you so hard it isn't even funny.

Buck up, sometimes things change but things will be okay. I can't even dress simple phrase up anymore because that's all there is to it.

Don't put so much blame on yourself. If things have to end, then I want you to get it through your thick head that it wasn't JUST YOU. As high a pedestal you put her on, she's only human too.

You're going to be fine. Really. Every word I say is from battle-hardened experience. It's the end of the year, the end of a decade. There's a blue moon on the 31st, did you know? All these signs are pointing for a fresh start on the 1st, and that doesn't mean at all that it will be without the people we care about.